Social Networking of Cyber World: A Dark Place

I always try to flash on reality. Practically I am little rude typo person. Not funny or prank prone. I am not going to give my bio-data anyway. Today I shall try to tell another thing wot I feel some honest, good people must know. I am trying to say it from my experience and education and observation.I shall talk on online social amateur networking, surely not professional or military networking. I was not an amateur networking person but due to an unavoidable reason I had to enter in chat room in the year 2007. Since then I have got myself invested in online social unnecessary contacts. First I started to pour in yahoo chat room.I don’t know why, may be due to my profession I had and still have an instinct to observe people. Most of the time I invested time to read people. I kept reading how they are interacting with others. At one stage I started to spy on them. In short I always tried to access to know the inside story and reason and their activities. I must say I am also not liking my on line face booking either. I ll stop it but ironically I have been trying to do it from long time but it’s not working .In order to do so I also had to play some unwanted roles, I admit. As a result I confess I do not like and do not feel comfortable with people who are engaged in social media. Yes I am right now a part of it though and that’s why I also think I am continuously undermining myself too.

Now why this concept has grown in my mind is a question. This concept grew in my mind because I found in most of the case those people who stay online to communicate with friends at night, I mean whole night, are somehow engaged in making fun with opposite sex, or prank or flirt even they cyber. Now this is my firm conviction, and that’s why I shall ask if anyone wants to believe me my advice is please never ever try to go closer to those people in any kind of relation who are awake whole night and get themselves engaged in public contact unless otherwise it is their permanent job.I am free with my students and they know me that I never hesitate to raise my voice against anything I feel unfair. My tongue is so sharp and I am careless. To be frank I do not have any expectation in my life. I do not run for money, girls, even I do not have any special choices on clothing,fooding etc. I am self made man. O yaa I am saying it cuz this is wot I am. That’s why I think I am so light and free. I am happily unmarried 34.

My profession is little difficult to mention here. But I am not engaged with any illegal activities. Now I am metaphoric but the story wot I am going to say is true. May be the plot is not the same.Some days back while I was freely exchanging few talks among my students one of my students told me about his affairs with an online girl and she lines abroad. He is engaged with this girl through online contact. They have been maintaining this relation for more than two years. I said him he must be careful and on the other hand he also must be sure about himself cuz he is also an addict.I asked him that is she I mean her cyber fiancé spending her time in online whole night or most part of the night he replied yes sir cuz she studies online and she is engaged in a project. I laughed at him and felt to slap him cuz by that time I felt his that online fiancé is surely engaged in making fun with other boys either by messenger or Skype or goggles talk or by any other means. I guarantee there is no any other way, they must do it if they are spending their time whole light in from of their computer.I asked him a simple question about her mood I said is she steady or her mood fluctuates? He said yes sir she sometimes miss me too much and sometimes bring so many excuses but she is so religious. I laughed at him and he was surprised, asked me sir is there anything funny that u r laughing. I said yes. It is funny. Most of the people who spent their night with their net are somehow mentally depressed and the easy way to drain out the depression is to use sexual stimulation by contacting the opposite sexes so you can be sure she is doing the same even if you are engaged whole night it is applicable to you too.He was not happy with my answer.

But some days back he came to me and said sir something fishy in her behavior I asked wot is that. He said she is asking me so many unexpected questions and even trying to prank with me wot she never did. She was never ever concerned about politics but now I can see she talks more on politics of her own country. I laughed at him and said may be she is now exchanging her night mission with someone who is engaged in political activities and that person is fun lover so she is becoming accustomed with it and she even cannot stop doing that with you too. So she is trying to be funny with you too. She is erotic now. They very moment a person ll start making fun with opposite sex be sure he or she is erotic and trying to appease the sexual spark in her/his amygdale located at their limbic profile.He asked me how I am so sure that she is engaged or exchanging with a male. I said simple logic. Politics is little masculine and mostly boys are politics prone. Then I said keep her watching.

Some days back he came to me with a sorrow face and said sir she is changed and stopped contacting with me. I said yes that day when you said she is more teasing prone than before I understood she is becoming more cyber girl than she was before. Because teasing with opposite sex is some kind of sexual stimulation or copulation which in Sanskrit language is called as “Sringer”. She has found her alternative and now she at best may bring the common excuse that her parents are not agreed with you. He said yes yes sir she is saying it that she is dying for me but she cannot leave her parents too. I knew it may happen cuz human being are angelic and satanic at the same time.I mentioned this event only to sketch a map on one side of this social media .I have long seen it in chat rooms and even I watch it in Facebook. When I am there I visit their pages and I note wot is her or his likings, which of the events he or she is responding mostly and what is her or his way of replying with their friends. I think I even can understand with whom they are too much closed and having private exchanges and how deep they are going in that.Anyway I am sure my student had his bad luck as he was trapped with a cyber girl who apparently was so religious but as I said before if anyone keep his or her life busy whole night with their laptop or tabs he or she must get engaged with opposite sexes somehow.There is no escape. My brothers and sisters be sure of it and try to avoid such people no matter apparently how nice they are. Lol I do not care either anyone believe it or not. But wot I experienced and found is clear to me. If I get married and have my kids and watch them engaged in net whole night I ll shoot them.